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How To Talk With Any Girl, Anytime, Anywhere Successfully.
When we speak about the topics of approaching women, or how to approach women, we always come up with the skill of conversation being important to the skill of how to approach women successfully.
I've always praised at my ability to initiate conversation with anybody at any time about any topic - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a skill I have and in this article I will tell you the SIMPLE secret to my success.
The best way to spark a conversation is to ask questions. Too easy? Well, let me show.
What do you ask questions regarding?
Well, I always just ask questions about something I want to know. It varies from person to person. But normally if I am meeting someone new I might ask questions such as "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you get along with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of pals?"
Usually a person chats for a while when answering and that lends you more data to ask more questions about. At times I will make a remark if it is proper or if they ask me a question in answering to my question I just answer their question then ask them a different one of my questions.
The hard times are when people simply give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't leave much to work off of.
When I feel the situation is awkward or the person isn't talking much (like the above "yes" and "no" responses), then I talk about how annoying the situation is. Tell something like "This is embarrassing. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to say. Do you feel uneasy too?"
Generally you can get a little conversation going on that topic and minimize a lot of tension just by acknowledging that you feel awkward and don't know what to speak about. Then move onto a question like "Ok, let's see what we can speak about. What are your passions? Do you have any pastime activities?"
Another questioning technique is to notice what a person puts their concentration on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for instance, if you are in a cafe and the person you are dating isn't talking much, just reading the menu, you could possibly say "Kind of an enjoyable menu. What appears good to you?" That might trigger a conversation about food items or restaurants and menus, etc.
This approach is also good for meeting unfamiliar persons. If you are in a general store next to some one attractive who is staring at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are interested in the lamb chops. Do you know a good way to prepare them, I've always wished to try them, but just don't know how to make them."
Remember also that you are not necessarily going to connect with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and look for a decent conversation going and it doesn't take place then this is probably not the best person for you.
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